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Event Rules

This section highlights important event rules and reminders for Hosts and Security.

Table of Contents

✓The Clear 'NO' Rule

The Clear "NO" rule

ℹThe Eden Consent Badges

Eden Consent Badge

ℹGeneral Expectations

General expectations for Hosts and Security.

✗Not Allowed (Zero Tolerance)

Not allowed behavior for Hosts and Security.

⚠Host Discretion

Host discretion for Hosts and Security.

ℹSpecific Event Rules

Specific event rules for Hosts and Security.

The Clear "NO" Rule​

The Clear "NO" rule is signified by crossing your arms in an "X" shape. It means that any interaction must stop immediately. This applies to everyone, including staff. As Hosts or Security, you are responsible for watching out for this sign and ensuring others respect it.

Consent is Priority #1

As always, consent is our number one priority. For Desktop users, you can use the 🚫 emote.

Eden Consent Badges are visual indicators that members can add to their avatars. They help communicate consent preferences. Hosts and Security should recognize what each badge color means:

  • 🔴 Red: No consent; do not touch; do not ask.
  • 🟡 Yellow: Consent to touch, but you must ask first.
  • 🟢 Green: Consent to touch is given; no need to ask.
  • 🔵 Blue: Same as green, but actively looking to be lewd.
Eden Consent Badge

The Badge is available to everyone in the server here: 🎀｜eden-consent-badge

General Expectations​

✓Event Conduct

  • Only include your name in the hosting thread
  • Be kind to other attendees; block if needed
  • Staff DM policies must be respected
  • Don't pull staff aside for issues unrelated to the event
  • Spawn area must remain SFW
  • Private rooms may be locked or left unlocked, attendees choose. Want to join a room? Ring the bell once; if there is no answer or a clear “no,” leave them alone
  • OSC/automation on avatars requires mutual consent
  • Collar usage requires consent
  • Staff will uphold consent color codes when the badge is worn (🎀｜eden-consent-badge)

ℹAvatar & Access

  • Wear event-appropriate avatars, what fits is host discretion for that event (e.g. goofy avis may be fine for a game night or photo tour, but not for orgy, hunt, or free-use)
  • Respect the host’s avatar / theme choices for their event
  • Min height: 0.5m; Max: ~3m [info]i
  • Avoid rapid avatar swapping
  • Default cuddle area is non‑lewd unless a host states otherwise
  • Bring water for drinking events; follow local laws at all times

Not Allowed (Zero Tolerance)​

✗Content & Behavior

  • Consent breaking (even headpats or boops if declined)
  • Kink shaming
  • Drama during events
  • Recording without explicit consent and awareness
  • Loli/Shota/Cub avatars in any NSFW form
  • Public discussion of hard kinks (knife play, vore, CNC, watersports, etc.) — keep to private rooms only and with consent

⚠Enforcement Notes

  • Non‑compliance may lead to warnings or removal from the event
  • Hosts/Security may remove rule‑breakers and must log incidents
  • Do not force private rooms unlocked, members report issues to event security or via an Event‑Talk ticket
Late joiners & knowing the rules

Staff are not required to re-announce event rules to members who join after the initial start-of-event announcement. Members are expected to know the rules in 💠｜rules (and any event-specific rules on the Discord event post) before joining. Hosts must put any event-specific rules in the public event announcement.

How to Report Something​

Open 🎫｜open-a-ticket and choose Event‑Talk. Only senior staff and event management can view the ticket.

Host Discretion​

Hosts decide what is appropriate for their event — including avatar / theme expectations — and may ask members to switch avis or leave if they do not fit. Members are expected to respect that call.

Hosts may also request certain members be restricted from their events when reasons are substantial. See the Host Discretion List for process details.

Specific Event Rules​

🍻Drinking Events

  • Always drink responsibly; your actions remain your responsibility
  • Follow local alcohol laws at all times
  • Keep water or other hydrating drinks close

🛋️Cuddle Puddle

  • Main cuddle area is non‑lewd; use designated/lewd areas or private rooms for lewd activity
  • Host will state nudity/lewd guidelines in advance or during the event
  • Default rule: stay clothed unless stated otherwise

🩲Nude‑Only

  • Prefer staying unclothed during the event
  • Avatars should have an NSFW toggle; you may dress when leaving
  • Minimum dress code: underwear
  • Only attend if comfortable with the event nature

🎭Role‑Play (RP)

  • Follow host’s rules in posts/threads
  • Respect varying levels of role‑play experience
  • Stay in character except in designated OOC areas
  • Non‑compliance can lead to warnings or removal